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Lost in Translation: Poet Jaspreet Kaur on Poetry as Therapy, Sikh Feminism, and Finding Spirituality in the Unexpected

The Methodist Church Season 4 Episode 105

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In this episode, Trey Hall sits down with poet, author, and educator Jaspreet Kaur - also known as Behind the Netra - for a rich, wide-ranging conversation about identity, faith, creativity, and what it means to go deeper than the surface of things.

Jaspreet opens with a stunning reading of her poem Lost in Translation, a tribute to her mother and the experience of navigating intersectional identity as a British South Asian woman. From there, the conversation weaves through the healing power of poetry, the feminist roots of the Sikh faith, the book Brown Girl Like Me, and a deeply personal account of finding spirituality not in a place of worship — but in a library, a research project, and a girls' home in Punjab.

Timestamps:

  • 2:29 — Introducing guest Jaspreet Kaur / Behind the Netra; reading of Lost in Translation
  • 5:07 — Why do people love or hate poetry? How it was introduced in schools
  • 6:50 — Rediscovering poetry through the Sikh faith: scripture written entirely in poetic form
  • 7:31 — Poetry as therapy: using writing to manage anxiety at age 13
  • 8:28 — The stigma around mental health in South Asian (and wider) communities
  • 9:06 — Anxiety attacks at 13, the journal she still has today, and the move from free writing to poetry
  • 9:46 — Pen to paper vs. typing: why handwriting feels therapeutic
  • 13:13 — What spirituality looks like in everyday life; lessons from a toddler noticing a snail
  • 16:14 — Brown Girl Like Me: writing the book, interviewing 150 Asian women, and why it was therapy
  • 22:44 — Spirituality and Sikh heritage: growing up in a Sikh household
  • 23:59 — The difference between practice and truly feeling faith
  • 25:39 — A master's in gender studies and researching son preference in South Asian communities
  • 26:24 — Finding spirituality through feminist research: the Sikh faith's founding principle of gender equality
  • 26:52 — Why Sikh women keep the name Kaur; removing caste through naming
  • 30:54 — Trey shares his own story: coming out as gay through scripture and direct experience of God
  • 32:09 — When faith and culture conflict: a shared challenge across all traditions
  • 33:23 — "Don't worry, next time you'll have a boy" — the rage of hearing that after a daughter's birth
  • 34:11 — Channelling holy rage into writing and advocacy
  • 39:18 — What does God feel like? Sun on your eyelids — a poetic description of the divine
  • 41:17 — Trey shares his 12-step recovery journey and experiencing God in the rooms of recovery
  • 41:59 — Powerlessness and surrender: the first steps and why a powerful God matters
  • 45:04 — Can you be a feminist and surrender to God? Yes — we are contradictions
  • 47:22 — Names for God that take energy and alertness to say; divine names across traditions

Guest: Jaspreet Kaur — poet, author, educator
Find her: Instagram, X, YouTube, Facebook — @BehindtheNetra
Book: Brown Girl Like Me

Spill the Spirituality is a project of the Methodist Church in Britain. Produced by John Ryan and Rachel Matthews. Hosted by Trey Hall.

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